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Rod & Chris: Unqualified and Unsupervised

Episode 1

 Episode 1: Welcome to the Club Nobody Asked to Join

Life doesn't come with a manual... and we're definitely not qualified to write one.

In the very first episode of Rod & Chris: Unqualified and Unsupervised, we introduce ourselves, share the stories that brought us here, and explain why we started a podcast about grief, caregiving, resilience, and finding a way to move forward after loss.

We're not therapists or life coaches. We're just two widowers who have learned that honest conversations—and a little questionable humor—can make even the hardest days feel a little less lonely.

If you've experienced loss, are caring for someone you love, or are simply looking for authentic conversations about life's unexpected turns, you're in the right place.

In this episode you'll hear:
• How Rod and Chris met
• The experiences that inspired the podcast
• Why we call it the club nobody asked to join
• What you can expect from future episodes
• Why it's okay to laugh, even while you're healing

If you enjoy the episode, please follow the podcast, leave a rating and review, and share it with someone who could use a little hope—and maybe a laugh.

Music Credits

Music: "Sergio's Magic Dustbin" by Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com)

Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 4.0 License

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APRIL 6 Episode 2

 Episode 2: Pastor Willie Rosin – The Pastor Who Knew Us Before We Needed a Pastor

Most people don't expect their pastor to become a regular character in their life story. We didn't either.

In Episode 2 of Rod & Chris: Unqualified and Unsupervised, we're joined by our longtime friend, Pastor Willie Rosin. Willie knew Chris and his wife, Janice, long before cancer entered the picture, and he was there through some of life's biggest moments—including officiating Janice's funeral.

Don't worry... this isn't a sermon.

It's an honest conversation between friends about grief, faith, friendship, healing, and why even funerals can have moments that leave you laughing years later. We share some behind-the-scenes stories, a few laughs at our own expense, and remind each other that hope and humor can exist in the very same conversation.

If you've ever wondered whether it's okay to laugh after loss, this episode is for you.

In this episode you'll hear:

  • Why Willie has been such an important friend through the years
  • Stories from Janice's funeral that still make us smile
  • Honest conversations about grief and faith
  • Why laughter isn't disrespectful—it's often part of healing
  • How good friends show up when life gets messy

If you enjoy the episode, please follow the podcast, leave a rating and review, and share it with someone who could use a little hope—and maybe a laugh.

Music Credits

Music: "Sergio's Magic Dustbin" by Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com)

Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 4.0 License

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APRIL 14 Episode 3

  Episode 3: Mary Lynn – When Life Changes in an Instant

None of us signed up for the club nobody asked to join, but somehow we keep finding some pretty incredible people once we're here.

In Episode 3 of Rod & Chris: Unqualified and Unsupervised, we sit down with Mary Lynn, who lost her husband suddenly at a young age. A retired writing instructor, nature lover, and lifelong learner, Mary Lynn shares her deeply personal journey through grief, resilience, and discovering that moving forward doesn't mean leaving your loved one behind.

It's a conversation filled with honesty, quiet wisdom, a few laughs, and the reminder that healing doesn't follow a schedule—and that's okay.

Whether you're grieving the loss of a spouse, supporting someone who is, or simply trying to make sense of life's unexpected turns, we hope Mary Lynn's story encourages you to keep moving forward, one step at a time.

In this episode you'll hear:

  • Mary Lynn's story of sudden loss
  • Learning to navigate life after becoming a widow
  • Finding comfort in nature and everyday moments
  • Why there is no "right way" to grieve
  • Hope, resilience, and moving forward with love

If this episode resonates with you, please follow the podcast, leave a rating and review, and share it with someone who could use a little hope—and maybe a laugh.

Music Credits

Music: "Sergio's Magic Dustbin" by Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com)

Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 4.0 License

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APRIL 21 Episode 4

 

Episode 4: Ed Halbach – The Guy We Can Blame for All of This

This one's a little different... and a little special.

Ed Halbach is the reason Rod & Chris: Unqualified and Unsupervised exists. So naturally, we figured it was only fair to bring him on the show—and maybe blame him for what we've started.

We talk about life, loss, friendship, sarcasm, and the kind of conversations that only happen when nobody's pretending to have all the answers. Ed brings his trademark wit, plenty of honesty, and just enough mischief to keep us laughing along the way. Because sometimes laughter isn't a distraction from the hard stuff—it's how we survive it.

This episode is part origin story, part therapy session (without the therapists), and completely unscripted.

In this episode you'll hear:

  • The story behind how the podcast came to be
  • Honest conversations about life after loss
  • Why sarcasm can be a legitimate coping strategy
  • Friendship, laughter, and finding hope in unexpected places
  • Three guys proving that experience beats expertise every time

Welcome to the club nobody asked to join.

If you enjoy the episode, please follow the podcast, leave a rating and review, and share it with someone who could use a little hope—and maybe a laugh.

Music Credits

Music: "Sergio's Magic Dustbin" by Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com)

Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 4.0 License

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APRIL 28 Episode 5

Episode 5: Fr. Josh – Even Priests Grieve

People often expect priests to have all the answers. Fr. Josh is the first to tell you that's not how grief works.

In Episode 5 of Rod & Chris: Unqualified and Unsupervised, Fr. Josh joins us for an honest conversation about grief from both sides of the aisle—his own personal losses and what it's like to stand at the altar leading funeral services for people he knew, loved, and cared about.

We talk about the weight of walking with grieving families, the challenge of carrying your own grief while supporting others, and why no one—not even a priest—is immune to heartbreak. It's thoughtful, genuine, occasionally funny, and a reminder that healing isn't about having all the answers.

Because sometimes the best conversations happen when we admit we don't.

In this episode you'll hear:

  • Fr. Josh's personal experiences with grief
  • What it's like to lead funeral services for people you love
  • Supporting others while carrying your own loss
  • Faith, hope, and finding strength when life feels heavy
  • Why it's okay to admit you don't have all the answers

Welcome to the club nobody asked to join.

If this episode speaks to you, please follow the podcast, leave a rating and review, and share it with someone who could use a little hope—and maybe a laugh.

Music Credits

Music: "Sergio's Magic Dustbin" by Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com)

Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 4.0 License

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May 5 Episode 6

Episode 6: No Guest. No Script. Just Us.

No guest this week. Just Rod and Chris... which means there's a pretty good chance we'll solve absolutely nothing.

Sometimes there isn't an expert to call, a five-step plan to follow, or an easy answer waiting around the corner. Sometimes life throws you something you never saw coming, and all you can do is figure out the next step.

In this episode of Rod & Chris: Unqualified and Unsupervised, we have an honest conversation about navigating the unexpected, living with loss, finding humor when you least expect it, and why moving forward doesn't always mean having it all figured out.

No interviews. No scripts. Just two friends sharing the kind of conversation we wish we'd heard when we first joined the club nobody asked to join.

In this episode you'll hear:

  • What to do when life doesn't go according to plan
  • Why it's okay not to have all the answers
  • Finding hope one small step at a time
  • The role humor plays in healing
  • Two guys trying to make sense of life's unexpected turns

If this episode resonates with you, please follow the podcast, leave a rating and review, and share it with someone who could use a little hope—and maybe a laugh.

Music Credits

Music: "Sergio's Magic Dustbin" by Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com)

Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 4.0 License

http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/

May 12 Episode 7

Episode 7: Mindy Coe – From the Band Room to the Badge

Band director. Navy weapons instructor. State trooper. Police captain.

Most people would be happy with just one of those careers. Mindy Coe decided to collect them.

In Episode 7 of Rod & Chris: Unqualified and Unsupervised, Mindy joins us to share stories from a life spent serving others—often on the worst days of their lives. We talk about what it's like to be a first responder, how those experiences shape your perspective, and what resilience really looks like when you've witnessed heartbreak up close.

Along the way, there are plenty of laughs, a few surprises, and an honest conversation about the emotional weight that first responders carry long after the call is over.

Whether you've worked in public service, experienced loss, or simply appreciate hearing incredible life stories, this episode is one you won't want to miss.

In this episode you'll hear:

  • Mindy's incredible journey through four very different careers
  • What first responders learn from showing up on people's worst days
  • The emotional toll of serving others
  • Resilience, perspective, and finding purpose through difficult moments
  • A few laughs proving that humor can survive even the hardest jobs

Welcome to the club nobody asked to join.

If you enjoy the episode, please follow the podcast, leave a rating and review, and share it with someone who could use a little hope—and maybe a laugh.

Music Credits

Music: "Sergio's Magic Dustbin" by Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com)

Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 4.0 License

http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/

Video

May 19 Episode 8

Episode 8: Christina Maulsby – Grieving the Life You Thought You'd Have

Sometimes grief isn't about losing someone you've loved. Sometimes it's grieving the future you thought was waiting for you.

In this deeply personal episode of Rod & Chris: Unqualified and Unsupervised, Christina Maulsby shares the story of raising her two sons—one living with lifelong neurological disabilities caused by shaken baby syndrome and the other navigating life on the autism spectrum.

Together, we have an honest, unfiltered conversation about caregiving, resilience, the emotional weight of parenting children with special needs, and the very real "loss of future" that comes when life doesn't unfold the way you imagined. It's a conversation about adapting, finding purpose, and discovering hope in places you never expected.

It's emotional. It's inspiring. And, because this is our show, there are still a few moments of laughter along the way.

In this episode you'll hear:

  • Christina's remarkable journey as a mother and caregiver
  • The grief of letting go of the future you envisioned
  • Raising children with complex needs
  • Finding resilience in the face of life's unexpected challenges
  • Why hope isn't about pretending everything is okay—it's about choosing to keep moving forward

Welcome to the club nobody asked to join.

If this episode resonates with you, please follow the podcast, leave a rating and review, and share it with someone who could use a little hope—and maybe a laugh.

Music Credits

Music: "Sergio's Magic Dustbin" by Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com)

Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 4.0 License

http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/

COMING: May 26 Episode 9

Episode 9: Caroline Scammell-Robertie – When You Have to Learn to Live Again

Some stories stop you in your tracks. Caroline Scammell-Robertie's is one of them.

In this heartfelt episode of Rod & Chris: Unqualified and Unsupervised, Caroline shares her journey through unimaginable loss—the death of her child, the loss of her husband, and the difficult path of learning how to keep living when life has changed forever.

Together, we talk about heartbreak, resilience, rebuilding, and the quiet courage it takes to face each new day while carrying grief with you. Caroline's honesty is both moving and inspiring, reminding us that healing isn't about leaving our loved ones behind—it's about finding a way to carry them forward as we continue living.

It's a conversation filled with raw emotion, genuine hope, and the reminder that even after life's darkest moments, meaning and purpose can still be found.

In this episode you'll hear:

  • Caroline's journey through profound loss
  • Learning to rebuild a life after tragedy
  • Finding purpose while carrying grief
  • Why healing doesn't mean forgetting
  • Hope, resilience, and the courage to keep moving forward

Welcome to the club nobody asked to join.

If this episode speaks to you, please follow the podcast, leave a rating and review, and share it with someone who could use a little hope—and maybe a laugh.

Music Credits

Music: "Sergio's Magic Dustbin" by Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com)

Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 4.0 License

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June 2 Episode 10

Episode 10: Mark Kuhn – A Tennis Court, A Legacy, and the Power of Moving Forward

What does a Wimbledon-style grass tennis court built in the middle of an Iowa farm have to do with grief?

More than you might imagine.

In Episode 10 of Rod & Chris: Unqualified and Unsupervised, we're joined by North Iowa farmer and former State Representative Mark Kuhn. Mark shares the remarkable story behind the world-famous grass tennis court he built on his family farm—and how, after the loss of his son to suicide, that same court became a living memorial to his son's life, legacy, and love of the game.

It's an honest conversation about unimaginable loss, healing, purpose, and choosing to keep moving forward even when life changes forever. Mark's story is heartbreaking, inspiring, and a powerful reminder that love can leave a legacy that reaches far beyond our own lives.

In this episode you'll hear:

  • The incredible story behind Iowa's world-famous grass tennis court
  • Mark's journey through the loss of his son
  • Turning heartbreak into a lasting legacy
  • Finding purpose and hope after tragedy
  • What it means to keep moving forward while honoring the people we love

Content Warning: This episode includes discussion of suicide, grief, and loss.

If you or someone you know is struggling with thoughts of suicide or needs immediate support, call or text 988 to reach the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline in the United States.

Welcome to the club nobody asked to join.

If this episode resonates with you, please follow the podcast, leave a rating and review, and share it with someone who could use a little hope—and maybe a laugh.

Music Credits

Music: "Sergio's Magic Dustbin" by Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com)

Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 4.0 License

http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/

Video

June 9 Episode 11

 Episode 11: Kelli Hill – Wait... We Accidentally Invited an Expert

This week, something unusual happened.

For the first time, Rod & Chris: Unqualified and Unsupervised welcomes someone who's actually... qualified. And supervised.

Kelli Hill, a child clinical psychologist, joins us for a thoughtful, practical, and surprisingly hopeful conversation about helping children navigate death, loss, and grief. We talk about how kids understand loss at different ages, how to answer the questions adults often struggle with, and why honest conversations—rather than perfect ones—can make all the difference.

Whether you're a parent, grandparent, teacher, caregiver, or simply someone who wants to better support a grieving child, Kelli offers practical guidance that's easy to understand and grounded in real-world experience.

Don't worry... Rod and Chris still manage to ask a few questions only the unqualified would think of.

In this episode you'll hear:

  • How children understand grief at different ages
  • Practical ways to talk with kids about death and loss
  • Common mistakes well-meaning adults make
  • Creating safe, honest conversations during difficult times
  • Expert advice... with just enough Rod & Chris mixed in

Welcome to the club nobody asked to join.

If this episode helps you, please follow the podcast, leave a rating and review, and share it with someone who could benefit from this conversation.

Music Credits

Music: "Sergio's Magic Dustbin" by Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com)

Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 4.0 License

http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/

June 16 Episode 12

Episode 12: Kim Weaver – Finding Comfort Beyond the Conversation

Some conversations ask more questions than they answer... and that's okay.

In Episode 12 of Rod & Chris: Unqualified and Unsupervised, we're joined by Kim Weaver for a fascinating and heartfelt discussion about grief, healing, faith, and the many ways people search for peace after losing someone they love.

Kim shares her personal journey of discovering what she believes is a unique gift, learning how to develop it, and using it in her work as an evidentiary medium to help others find comfort and connection after loss. Whether you're curious, skeptical, or somewhere in between, this episode invites an open, respectful conversation about hope, healing, and the deeply personal ways people process grief.

As always, Rod and Chris ask the questions many of us are thinking—and a few we probably shouldn't.

In this episode you'll hear:

  • Kim's journey of discovering and developing her gift
  • What an evidentiary medium is and how Kim approaches her work
  • Different paths people take toward healing after loss
  • Conversations about faith, hope, and finding peace
  • Why it's okay to ask difficult questions

Welcome to the club nobody asked to join.

If this episode resonates with you, please follow the podcast, leave a rating and review, and share it with someone who could use a little hope—and maybe a laugh.

Music Credits

Music: "Sergio's Magic Dustbin" by Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com)

Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 4.0 License

http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/

June 23 Episode 13

Episode 13: Madaline Barnes – We Did It Again... We Accidentally Booked Another Expert

It's happening more often than we'd like to admit... another guest who's actually qualified and supervised.

In Episode 13 of Rod & Chris: Unqualified and Unsupervised, therapist and neuroscientist Madaline Barnes joins us for a fascinating conversation about grief, mental health, and how our brains respond to loss. With a career path that began in statistics before leading her into therapy and grief counseling, Madaline brings a unique perspective that's both practical and deeply compassionate.

We talk about helping adolescents navigate grief, why everyone experiences loss differently, and how to recognize when grief may be developing into depression. It's an honest, approachable conversation that helps make sense of one of life's most confusing experiences.

Don't worry... Rod and Chris still manage to keep things from sounding like a college lecture.

In this episode you'll hear:

  • Why grief looks different for everyone
  • Helping adolescents process loss in healthy ways
  • The difference between grief and depression
  • What neuroscience can teach us about healing
  • Practical insights for anyone supporting a grieving loved one

Welcome to the club nobody asked to join.

If this episode helps you better understand grief, please follow the podcast, leave a rating and review, and share it with someone who could benefit from the conversation.

Music Credits

Music: "Sergio's Magic Dustbin" by Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com)

Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 4.0 License

http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/

Video

June 29 Episode 14

 

Episode 14: Sybil Soukup – The Healing Power of Pets

They greet us with wagging tails, unconditional love, and somehow always seem to know exactly when we need them most.

In Episode 14 of Rod & Chris: Unqualified and Unsupervised, we're joined by Sybil Soukup, Executive Director of the Humane Society of North Iowa, for a heartfelt conversation about the unique bond between people and their pets.

Together, we explore how pets can help us navigate grief, why losing a beloved animal can be just as heartbreaking as any other loss, and even how animals themselves experience grief. It's a thoughtful, touching conversation filled with stories, laughter, and a reminder that healing sometimes comes with four legs and a wet nose.

Whether you've loved and lost a pet, are grieving someone special, or simply understand the comfort an animal can bring, this episode is sure to resonate.

In this episode you'll hear:

  • How pets help us through grief and loss
  • Why grieving a pet is real and valid
  • Do animals grieve? What we've learned
  • The incredible human-animal bond
  • Stories that will make you smile—and maybe reach over to pet your dog or cat

Welcome to the club nobody asked to join.

If this episode touched your heart, please follow the podcast, leave a rating and review, and share it with a fellow animal lover or someone who could use a little hope—and maybe a smile.

Music Credits

Music: "Sergio's Magic Dustbin" by Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com)

Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 4.0 License

http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/

July 7 Episode 15

 

Episode 15: Conrae Huinker - **Walking Both Sides of Hospice  **

What is hospice really like?

Hospice nurse Conrae Huinker has spent years walking alongside patients and families during life's most difficult moments. She thought she understood grief—until her own husband was diagnosed with ALS.

In this episode of Rod & Chris: Unqualified and Unsupervised, Conrae shares moving stories from her career in hospice, dispels some of the biggest myths about hospice care, and reflects on what it was like when she became the caregiver instead of the nurse.

We talk about the realities of ALS, the challenges of caring for someone you love, the lessons grief teaches us, and why laughter still has a place—even in the hardest seasons of life.

Whether you've experienced loss, are caring for a loved one, work in healthcare, or simply want to understand hospice a little better, this is a conversation you won't soon forget.

In this episode:
• What hospice nurses wish everyone understood
• Common misconceptions about hospice care
• Caring for a spouse living with ALS
• Experiencing grief from both sides of the bedside
• Finding hope, purpose, and even humor after profound loss

Rod & Chris: Unqualified and Unsupervised features real conversations about grief, caregiving, resilience, and finding a way forward after life knocks you flat. No experts. No perfect answers. Just honest conversations from people who've lived it.

New episodes premiere first on Boomer X Radio Mondays and Wednesdays at 7:00 PM (Central) before becoming available wherever you listen to podcasts.

Music Credits

Music: "Sergio's Magic Dustbin" by Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com)

Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 4.0 License

http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/

July 14 Episode 16

Episode 16: Trey Sandvig – When Home Isn't Safe

Home should be the safest place in the world. For far too many people, it isn't.

In Episode 15 of Rod & Chris: Unqualified and Unsupervised, we're joined by Trey Sandvig, a Domestic Assault Advocate with ACCESS (Assault Care Center Extending Shelter & Support). Trey shares what it's really like to help survivors of domestic violence find safety, navigate the legal system, and take the first difficult steps toward a new beginning.

Leaving an abusive relationship isn't as simple as walking out the door. Fear, finances, children, housing, and countless other obstacles can make escaping feel impossible. Trey helps us understand those challenges while explaining how ACCESS provides advocacy, emergency shelter, crisis support, and hope for people who need it most.

This conversation is compassionate, eye-opening, and incredibly important. Whether you know someone who may be in an abusive relationship, work with people in crisis, or simply want to better understand what survivors face, this episode has the power to change how you see domestic violence.

In this episode you'll hear:

  • Why leaving an abusive relationship is often the most dangerous time
  • What a Domestic Assault Advocate does every day
  • How ACCESS helps survivors find safety, shelter, and support
  • What to expect when working through the court system
  • How friends and family can recognize warning signs and offer meaningful support
  • Why no one should have to face abuse alone

If you or someone you know needs help, ACCESS is available 24 hours a day.

Sexual Abuse Crisis Line: 1.800.203.3488
Domestic Violence Crisis Line: 1.855.983.4641
Shelter Services Crisis Line: 1.855.696.2980

If this conversation resonates with you, please follow the podcast, leave a rating and review, and share this episode. You never know who may need these resources—or who may become the person someone turns to for help.

Music Credits

Music: "Sergio's Magic Dustbin" by Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com)
Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 4.0 License
http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/

Video

July 21 Episode 17

Episode 17: Scott Schell – Loss, Faith, and Answering the Call

Sometimes life leads you down a path you never expected.

In Episode 17 of Rod & Chris: Unqualified and Unsupervised, we're joined by Scott Schell, whose journey took him from the business world to the pulpit. But long before becoming a pastor, Scott experienced heartbreaking loss as several of his close friends died during the AIDS epidemic—a time when fear, misunderstanding, and stigma often left people grieving in silence.

Scott shares how those losses shaped his faith, changed his perspective on compassion, and ultimately influenced his decision to answer God's call into ministry. We talk about grief, purpose, friendship, and what it means to simply be present for people when life falls apart.

This conversation is honest, thoughtful, and full of hope. Whether you've experienced loss yourself, wrestled with questions of faith, or wondered how difficult seasons can lead to unexpected purpose, Scott's story offers encouragement and perspective.

In this episode you'll hear:

  • How Scott's career shifted from business to ministry
  • What it was like losing several close friends during the AIDS epidemic
  • How grief and loss strengthened his compassion for others
  • The role faith played in navigating life's hardest moments
  • Why simply showing up for someone can make all the difference
  • How purpose can emerge from seasons of heartbreak

If this conversation resonates with you, please follow the podcast, leave a rating and review, and share this episode with someone who could use a reminder that hope can still be found—even after tremendous loss.

Music Credits

Music: "Sergio's Magic Dustbin" by Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com)

Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 4.0 License

http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/

July 28 Episode 18

Episode 18: Conversational Goulash – When Plans Go Sideways


What do you do when your guest texts to say they're stuck in Twin Cities traffic and won't make the interview?

Well... we guess we make goulash.


In Episode 18 of Rod & Chris: Unqualified and Unsupervised, our carefully planned interview turned into something completely unplanned. Instead of a guest, it's just Rod and Chris serving up what we affectionately call Conversational Goulash—a little bit of everything mixed together.


We dive into gratitude and why it can be so difficult after loss. We talk about the "year of firsts" that so many people expect after grief... and why the "year of lasts" can catch you completely off guard. Along the way, we share stories, laugh at ourselves, chase a few rabbit trails, and somehow manage to make it all fit together.


Sometimes the best conversations aren't planned at all.


In this episode you'll hear:

  • How a traffic jam turned into an unexpected episode
  • Why gratitude isn't always easy—but still matters
  • The emotional weight of the "year of firsts"
  • Why the "year of lasts" can be even more surprising
  • A few completely unplanned detours (because that's how conversations work)
  • Proof that sometimes the best episodes come from making it up as you go

If this episode makes you laugh, think, or nod your head in agreement, please follow the podcast, leave a rating and review, and share it with someone who appreciates honest conversations—even when they don't go according to plan.


Music Credits

Music: "Sergio's Magic Dustbin" by Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com)

Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 4.0 License

http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/

August 4 Episode 19

Episode 19: Jamie Locke – Funeral Etiquette, Expectations & The Stories You Never Hear

What should you wear to a funeral? Is there really a "right" way to behave? And what are some of the funniest, strangest, or most memorable requests funeral directors have ever received?

In Episode 19 of Rod & Chris: Unqualified and Unsupervised, we're joined by funeral director Jamie Locke. Since Rod works alongside Jamie at the funeral home, we thought it was time to pull back the curtain on a profession that most people only see during one of the hardest days of their lives.

Jamie helps us separate fact from fiction when it comes to funeral etiquette. We talk about what families really appreciate, what guests often worry about unnecessarily, and why showing up is usually far more important than saying the perfect thing. Of course, no conversation with funeral directors would be complete without sharing a few of the funny, unexpected, and unforgettable moments that happen behind the scenes.

It's a conversation that's informative, heartfelt... and probably a lot funnier than you'd expect.

In this episode you'll hear:

  • What you should (and shouldn't) wear to a funeral
  • Common questions about funeral etiquette and behavior
  • Why your presence matters more than finding the perfect words
  • Funny and unusual requests funeral directors have actually received
  • Behind-the-scenes stories from life inside a funeral home
  • Why laughter often has a place, even during life's hardest moments

If this episode makes you laugh, teaches you something new, or helps make an uncomfortable topic a little less intimidating, please follow the podcast, leave a rating and review, and share it with someone who appreciates honest conversations with a little humor mixed in.

Music Credits

Music: "Sergio's Magic Dustbin" by Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com)

Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 4.0 License

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August 11 Episode 20

 

Episode 20: Dr. Sterling Laaveg – The Gift of Respite

What do you do when you've been caring for someone around the clock and you desperately need a break... but feel guilty for taking one?

That's where respite care comes in.

In Episode 20 of Rod & Chris: Unqualified and Unsupervised, we're joined by Dr. Sterling Laaveg to talk about the life-changing impact of respite care. Drawing from his experience as a respite care volunteer in Arizona, Dr. Laaveg shares what it's like to spend time with patients who are nearing the end of life, giving their caregivers something they rarely allow themselves—time away.

For caregivers, stepping away can feel impossible. There are errands to run, sleep to catch up on, appointments to keep, or sometimes just the need to sit in silence for a little while. Dr. Laaveg reminds us that taking care of yourself isn't abandoning the person you love—it's what allows you to keep showing up for them.

This conversation shines a light on the quiet, compassionate work of respite volunteers and why caring for the caregiver is just as important as caring for the patient.

In this episode you'll hear:

  • What respite care is and why it matters
  • Dr. Laaveg's experiences volunteering with end-of-life patients in Arizona
  • Why caregivers often struggle to give themselves permission to take a break
  • How even a few hours of respite can make a lasting difference
  • The emotional rewards of serving patients and their families
  • Why no caregiver should have to carry the burden alone

If this episode encourages you, helps you better understand the challenges caregivers face, or inspires you to support someone in need, please follow the podcast, leave a rating and review, and share it with someone who could benefit from this conversation.

Music Credits

Music: "Sergio's Magic Dustbin" by Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com)

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August 18 Episode 21

 

Episode 21: Toni Loyal – Grief, Tradition, and Homegoing

How we grieve is shaped by who we are, where we come from, and the traditions passed down through generations.

In Episode 21 of Rod & Chris: Unqualified and Unsupervised, we're joined by Toni Loyal, who grew up on the South Side of Chicago and shares the traditions surrounding death, mourning, and remembrance in his Black family and community.

Toni takes us inside what happens when a family comes together after a loss—from the rituals of mourning and the funeral itself to the homegoing celebration and the re-pass, when family and friends gather afterward to share food, stories, laughter, and memories.

We talk about why a funeral can be both deeply sad and a celebration. Toni shares how faith, family, food, music, storytelling, and community all become part of honoring the person who died—and helping those left behind begin to move forward.

It's a conversation about the different ways we say goodbye, the traditions that connect generations, and how grief and celebration can exist in the same room.

In this episode you'll hear:

  • Toni's experience growing up on the South Side of Chicago
  • Traditions surrounding death and mourning in his Black family
  • What a homegoing celebration means and why it's important
  • The role of faith, music, family, and community
  • What happens at the re-pass after the service
  • Why food, stories, laughter, and memories are part of grieving
  • How traditions help families honor those they've lost

No matter what our traditions look like, grief has a way of bringing us together. And sometimes celebrating a life is just as important as mourning its loss.

If this conversation resonates with you, please follow the podcast, leave a rating and review, and share this episode with someone who might enjoy hearing a different perspective on how we grieve, remember, and celebrate the people we love.

Music Credits

Music: "Sergio's Magic Dustbin" by Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com)

Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 4.0 License

http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/

August 25 Episode 22

 

Episode 22: Kevi Niland – When You Don't Get to Say Goodbye


What happens when someone you love is dying—but circumstances keep you from being there?


In Episode 22 of Rod & Chris: Unqualified and Unsupervised, we're joined by Kevi Niland, whose life and career took her to Washington, D.C., where she worked as a Reading Clerk on the floor of the U.S. House of Representatives.


But this conversation isn't about politics. It's about love, loss, and a goodbye that didn't happen the way Kevi imagined it would.

When Kevi's fiancé became seriously ill, his children moved him from Washington, D.C. to Arizona, where they lived. Suddenly, Kevi found herself separated from the person she loved during the final chapter of his life.


Kevi shares what it was like to grieve someone who was still alive but no longer physically beside her, and then to face his death without having been there at the end. We talk about the complicated emotions that come when decisions are outside your control, the things left unsaid, and how you begin moving forward when you didn't get the goodbye you wanted.

It's a powerful reminder that grief doesn't always come with closure—and sometimes there isn't a neat ending to the story.


In this episode you'll hear:

  • Kevi's fascinating career as a Reading Clerk in the U.S. House of Representatives
  • What happened when her fiancé became seriously ill
  • The heartbreak of being separated from someone you love near the end of their life
  • Grieving when circumstances and decisions are outside your control
  • The complicated emotions surrounding a goodbye you didn't get to have
  • How Kevi began navigating life after his death
  • Why closure doesn't always look the way we expect it to

Sometimes grief isn't only about losing someone. It's also about grieving the moments, conversations, and goodbyes you thought you would have.


If this conversation resonates with you, please follow the podcast, leave a rating and review, and share this episode. Someone else may be carrying a goodbye they never got to say.


Music Credits

Music: "Sergio's Magic Dustbin" by Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com)

Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 4.0 License

http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/

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September 1 Episode 23

Episode 23: Toni Plante – A Mother’s Story, Part 1

Some stories can’t—and shouldn’t—be squeezed into one episode.


In this rare two-part conversation, Toni Plante joins Rod & Chris to share the story of her 15-year-old daughter, her struggle with depression, and her death by suicide.


Toni talks openly about what their family experienced, the things she understands differently now, and the unimaginable process of figuring out how to keep living after losing a child. She shares how she found a way through the darkest days—not by leaving her daughter behind, but by carrying her story forward.


Today, Toni speaks openly about suicide and mental health, working to raise awareness, encourage conversation, and support research that may help other young people and their families.

This is a difficult conversation, but an important one. It’s also a conversation about love, survival, purpose, and what can happen when someone chooses to turn devastating loss into a reason to speak up.


In Part 1, you’ll hear:

  • Toni’s story as a mother
  • Her daughter’s struggle with depression
  • The devastating reality of losing a child to suicide
  • How Toni began navigating life after her daughter’s death
  • Why she now shares their story publicly
  • Her commitment to awareness, conversation, and research

Content Warning: This episode includes discussion of depression, suicide, and the death of a child.

If you or someone you know is struggling or in crisis, call or text 988 in the U.S. to reach the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline.


Part 2 continues Toni’s story in Episode 24.


Music Attribution
“Sergio’s Magic Dustbin” by Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com)
Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 4.0 License
creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/

Coming: September 7 Episode 24

Episode 24: Toni Plante – A Mother’s Story, Part 2

Some conversations need more time.

In Part 1 of our conversation with Toni Plante, she shared the heartbreaking story of losing her 15-year-old daughter to suicide after her struggle with depression.


In Part 2, we continue Toni’s story.


Toni talks about what came next—learning to live with an unimaginable loss, finding a way forward, and eventually turning her grief into a mission to help others.

She shares why she now speaks openly about suicide and mental health, the importance of awareness and research, and what she hopes parents, families, and communities can learn from her daughter’s story.


This isn’t a conversation about “getting over” grief. It’s about learning how to carry it, finding purpose alongside it, and having conversations that are sometimes incredibly difficult—but desperately important.


Toni trusted us with a story no mother ever wants to tell. We’re incredibly grateful she chose to tell it with us.


In Part 2, you’ll hear:

  • What life looked like for Toni after losing her daughter
  • How she began finding her way forward
  • Why she decided to speak publicly about suicide
  • Her work promoting awareness and supporting research
  • What she wants other parents and families to know
  • Why talking openly about mental health and suicide matters

Content Warning: This episode includes discussion of depression, suicide, and the death of a child.


If you or someone you know is struggling or in crisis, call or text 988 to reach the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline. Help is available 24/7.


Music Attribution
“Sergio’s Magic Dustbin” by Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com)
Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 4.0 License
creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/

September 14 Episode 25

 Episode 25: Peggy Dunn – The Long Goodbye


What happens when the person you’ve loved for more than 50 years is still here—but life together begins to change?

Peggy Dunn joins Rod & Chris to share what happened when her husband of more than five decades was diagnosed with dementia, beginning a journey often described as the long goodbye.


Peggy talks honestly about watching someone you’ve built a lifetime with begin to change, stepping into the role of caregiver, and experiencing a kind of grief that doesn’t wait for death. It can begin with a diagnosis, a forgotten memory, a change in personality, or the realization that the life you planned together may no longer look the way you imagined.


It’s a conversation about dementia, caregiving, marriage, love, and anticipatory grief—grieving the losses that happen along the way while still loving and caring for the person who is right in front of you.


And after more than 50 years together, there are a lot of memories, a lot of love, and a lot to hold onto.


In this episode, you’ll hear:

  • Peggy and her husband’s life together
  • The dementia diagnosis that changed their lives
  • What “the long goodbye” really means for a spouse
  • Becoming a caregiver after decades as partners
  • The grief that can begin long before someone is gone
  • Finding a way forward when life doesn’t look the way you expected

Sometimes grief begins with goodbye.

Sometimes it begins long before.


Music Attribution
“Sergio’s Magic Dustbin” by Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com)
Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 4.0 License
creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/

Video

September 22 Episode 26

 

Episode 26: Scott Tepner – The Day He Died

Scott Tempner had a heart attack.

Then he died.

While lying on a table in the emergency room, Scott’s heart stopped. The medical team brought him back—and he lived to tell the story.

In Episode 26 of Rod & Chris: Unqualified and Unsupervised, Scott joins us to talk about what happened that day, what he remembers, and how coming that close to the end changed the way he looks at the life he still gets to live.

Because sometimes it takes losing everything—even for a few moments—to completely change what matters.

In this episode, you'll hear:

  • What happened the day Scott suffered his heart attack
  • What he remembers about dying in the ER
  • What it was like waking up after being brought back
  • How the experience changed his priorities
  • Why he approaches life differently today

No experts. Just experience. And this week, one hell of a second chance.

Music: “Sergio’s Magic Dustbin” by Kevin MacLeod (Incompetech), licensed under Creative Commons.

September 29 Episode 27

 Episode 27: Angel Thompson – Grieving Together

Grief doesn’t just affect the person who experienced the loss. It can change a marriage, a relationship, and the way two people move through life together.


In Episode 27 of Rod & Chris: Unqualified and Unsupervised, Angel Thompson joins us to talk about what it’s like to support a spouse who is grieving the loss of family members.


Angel shares the challenges of watching someone you love hurt when you can’t fix it, knowing when to step in and when to simply be there, and learning how to support your partner while navigating the changes grief can bring to a relationship.

We also have an important conversation about suicide, the impact it leaves on those who love someone, and why we need to be willing to talk about it.


Because sometimes loving someone through grief isn’t about finding the right words or making things better. It’s about staying beside them while they find their way forward.


In this episode, you’ll hear:

  • What it’s like to support a grieving spouse
  • How grief can affect a relationship
  • The challenge of wanting to help when you can’t “fix” the loss
  • Grief following suicide and its impact on families
  • Why simply being present can matter
  • How couples can keep moving forward together

Content Note: This episode includes discussion of suicide and suicide loss.


If you or someone you know is struggling or in crisis, call or text 988 to reach the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline. Help is available 24/7.


No experts. Just experience. And sometimes, being there is enough.


Rod & Chris: Unqualified and Unsupervised
Unfiltered conversations from the club we didn’t want to join.

Music: “Sergio’s Magic Dustbin” by Kevin MacLeod
Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 4.0 License

October 13 Episode 28

 Episode 28: Angela Myers – Love, Loss, and Life with ALS

What happens when the person you planned to grow old with is diagnosed with a disease that changes everything—and you're raising two young daughters while trying to hold your family together?

Angela Myers joins Rod & Chris to share her journey of caring for her husband as he battled Amyotrophic Lateral Sclerosis (ALS), also known as Lou Gehrig's disease, a progressive neurological disease that affects the nerve cells responsible for voluntary muscle movement.

Angela talks about the challenges of becoming a caregiver while still being a wife and mother, navigating the uncertainty of a devastating diagnosis, and trying to maintain some sense of normalcy for her two young daughters as their father's disease progressed.

It's a conversation about love, marriage, parenting, caregiving, and the kind of grief that begins long before someone is gone. The physical and emotional demands of caring for someone with ALS are enormous, but so is the challenge of helping children understand what's happening to someone they love.

And when her husband died, Angela faced another chapter—learning how to move forward while raising two daughters who were grieving their father.

Because sometimes being strong doesn't mean having it all together.

Sometimes it just means getting everyone through another day.

In this episode, you'll hear:

  • Angela and her husband's journey through an ALS diagnosis
  • Understanding Amyotrophic Lateral Sclerosis and how it changes everyday life
  • Becoming a caregiver while still being a wife and mother
  • Raising two young daughters while their father battled a terminal illness
  • The emotional and physical challenges of caring for a spouse with ALS
  • Experiencing anticipatory grief while caring for someone you love
  • Helping children navigate the illness and eventual loss of a parent
  • Finding a way forward as a widow and single parent

Sometimes grief begins with a diagnosis.

Sometimes the hardest part is trying to protect the people you love from a reality you can't change.

And sometimes moving forward means learning how to carry both the love and the loss.

Music Attribution
“Sergio's Magic Dustbin” by Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com)
Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 4.0 License
creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/

Rod & Chris: Unqualified and Unsupervised
No experts. Just experience. And conversations worth having.

Video

October 20 Episode 29

 

Episode 29: Mary Ingham – Breaking the Silence: Domestic Abuse Awareness, Part 1

What does it take to leave an abusive relationship? And why is it never as simple as telling someone to “just leave”?

October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month, and Rod & Chris are marking the occasion with a special two-part conversation featuring Mary Ingham from Crisis Intervention Service.

In Part 1, Mary joins us to talk about the realities of domestic abuse, the challenges survivors face, and the important work Crisis Intervention Service does to help individuals and families find safety, support, and a way forward.

Domestic abuse isn't always physical. It can involve emotional manipulation, financial control, intimidation, isolation, and fear. And for someone living in an abusive situation, leaving isn't always as simple—or as safe—as the rest of us might think.

It's a conversation about awareness, compassion, breaking the silence, and understanding that nobody deserves to live in fear.

And this time, we're doing more than talking about it.

As part of Domestic Violence Awareness Month, Chris is taking on a 50-mile cycling challenge to raise $5,000 for Crisis Intervention Service.

The goal? $100 for every mile.

Fifty miles. One mission. Helping people find a way out of dangerous situations and toward a safer future.

Whether you contribute $5, $50, or sponsor an entire mile, every donation helps support the mission.

Visit rodandchris.com and click the Fundraiser tab to learn more and donate.

In this episode, you'll hear:

  • Meet Mary Ingham and learn about the work of Crisis Intervention Service
  • Why October's Domestic Violence Awareness Month matters
  • The different forms domestic abuse can take beyond physical violence
  • Why leaving an abusive relationship can be incredibly complicated
  • The barriers survivors face when seeking safety and support
  • How Crisis Intervention Service helps individuals and families in crisis
  • What friends, family, and communities can do to support survivors

Sometimes the hardest part isn't asking for help.

It's believing there's a way out.

And sometimes making a difference starts with something as simple as showing up, speaking out, or chipping in.

This is Part 1 of a special two-part conversation. Be sure to join us for Part 2 as we continue our discussion with Mary Ingham.

Content Warning
This episode includes discussion of domestic abuse, intimate partner violence, and trauma. Please listen with care.

If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic violence, confidential help is available through the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-SAFE (7233), by texting START to 88788, or online at thehotline.org.

If you are in immediate danger, call 911.

Music Attribution
“Sergio's Magic Dustbin” by Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com)
Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 4.0 License
creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/

Rod & Chris: Unqualified and Unsupervised
No experts. Just experience. And conversations worth having.

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